'I'VE NEVER CLIMAXED DURING SEX, DO YOU HAVE ANY TIPS ON HOW I CAN REACH ORGASM?'

Did you know that 60% of vulva owners in the UK say clitoral stimulation is key to climaxing? A fun way to give your clitoris the focus it deserves is with a vibrator that both of you will be intrigued by, such asThe Firefighter.

'HOW CAN YOU SPICE UP YOUR SEX LIFE WHEN IT STARTS TO BECOME BORING?'

Sometimes we just need to switch our mindset. Rather than when was the last time you had (partnered) sex, ask when was the last time you orgasmed? Maybe more self-love is what you need.

'PENETRATION IS VERY PAINFUL FOR ME, WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE SEX MORE COMFORTABLE?'

A common factor is a lack of lubrication which creates uncomfortable friction. A water-based lubricant likeGenerous Gel makes penetration smooth.

'I FEEL LIKE I'M NOT INTERESTED IN SEX ANYMORE. WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO GET YOUR LIBIDO BACK?'

Take the time for some solo-sex sessions, to find out what your pleasure preferences are right now. You could also try a suction toy whereby air pulsation creates a unique sensation.The Poet has squeeze sensors and different shaped mouths to personalise your pleasure!

'SHOULD I ALWAYS PEE AFTER PENETRATIVE SEX? OR IS THAT JUST A MYTH?'

Not a myth, it is good advice to help prevent urinary tract infections.

'I'VE NEVER CLIMAXED DURING SEX, DO YOU HAVE ANY TIPS ON HOW I CAN REACH ORGASM?'

Masturbation and communication is key. Once you begin to understand what feels best for you, you can bring this practice into the bedroom with your partner. A good place to start is LELO's Sila.

'HOW CAN YOU SPICE UP YOUR SEX LIFE WHEN IT STARTS TO BECOME BORING?'

If you are single, begin to explore kink and fetish. If coupled up, a mid-afternoon sexy voice note or pic can arouse the senses. Anticipation is the funnest part at times. LELO's Tiani 2 is great to get the frisky back.

'PENETRATION IS VERY PAINFUL FOR ME, WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE SEX MORE COMFORTABLE?'

I recommend using the LELO Gigi 2 to begin with penetration exercises where you are in control. Additionally, using plenty of lubricant like the LELO's Personal Moisturiser.

'I FEEL LIKE I'M JUST NOT INTERESTED IN SEX ANYMORE. WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO GET YOUR LIBIDO BACK?'

Start off by reading or listening to some auto-erotica. The mind is a powerful thing and fantasy can be very exciting. Talk to your body and tell it how much you love it!

'MY BOYFRIEND IS TOO INTIMIDATED TO USE SEX TOYS, HOW CAN I INTRODUCE THEM INTO THE BEDROOM?'

Communication is so important. He needs to understand that toys are an accoutrement to your sexual life, not a replacement for him and his manhood. Start off first by masturbating in front of him. LELO's Sona 2 is perfect for this.